Do You Have a Plan?

In business we are taught to have 5 year and even 10 year GOALS.  A business plan is a necessary element of most successful businesses, however large that business may be.  What's your plan?  What's your mission statement?  These are things we have all heard, some of us have even authored such plans.


What about life?  Do we need to write down a plan for our lives?  Should we have a general direction in which we will focus our attention?  It makes sense, doesn't it?


But we are followers of Christ.  The question that first comes into my mind is, who owns my life?  Have I given it to Jesus?  --And if I have given it to Him, is it not up to Him to take me wherever He wants me?


Is that faith? Or is that just an easy out for NOT having a good enough plan?


This verse may clarify things:
Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause like the noonday sun. Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him…" (Psalm 37:5-7a, NIV).


If someone were to have asked me back in the year 2000 to write out my 10 year plan and what life would look like TODAY, I can assure you it would have looked NOTHING like it looks in reality.


My husband would have remained totally healthy.  A lifetime of facing the possibility of him falling out of remission to a life threatening disease would definitely NOT have been a part of my plan!!  My children would be in public school, and I would be a nurse practitioner, working about 20 hours a week.  My youngest son would have been a daughter (since that's what I assumed we would have back then...one boy and one girl) and he would NOT have  been diagnosed to be on the Autism spectrum!  We would have been living in a larger home, debt free, and traveling to our hearts desires.  


But instead, God used the unplanned stuff that happened in life, in spite of MY plans, to bring me closer to Him.  To bring me to a place where we I am working for His Kingdom, and a place where my heart is much less ego-centric, narcissistic, and materially absorbed.  Through the pain and suffering, God has changed me!  I'm not going to kid you, the journey totally stunk a lot of the time... but I really like where God has placed me.-- And I have my eyes set on eternity with Him, not just the few years on this Earth.


I guess I'm still not sure if we should go through life totally without a plan. Maybe we need goals.  Perhaps we should have some sort of life-destination in mind.   All I know is that when God moves us along the paths of life, we can seldom know- from one minute to the next- where it is He is going to take us; how we're going to get there; and sometimes we may not even know WHEN we've arrived!  If that's not faith... holy cow!-- I don't know what else to call it. 

Phil Vischer teaches us What's In the Bible

When I mention Phil Vischer, what do you immediately envision?  A tomato, perhaps? A group of vegetables that can sing, hop, and tell Bible stories?  Well, yes, you're right...that's probably what most of us think about when we hear Phil's name! VeggieTales creator, aka Bob the Tomato.

But Phil has been hard at work for the last several years, since the 2003 Bankruptcy that forced him to sell Big Idea Productions.  Just what has he been up to, you ask? Well, doing more of what God has called him to do...create relevant, Biblically based children's entertainment that teaches kids about God.

With the 2008 launch of his online network variety show, JellyTelly , we were introduced to a new cast of characters.  Not a vegetable among them!! No, these players are all puppets!  This troop is held together by their front man...er... front puppet, Buck Denver ; TV anchorman and all around good guy who helps answer questions sent in from real children, as well as clarify some lesson objectives, and fix some sticky situations that the lovable, quirky cast of characters seem to get themselves into during the daily shows. 

These puppets personify several different real-person types that kids will both love and be able to relate to.  From the humorous Dr. Schniffenhousen; to the very knowledgable, grandmotherly Sunday School Lady; to Michael, who is...a kid.   This wonderful puppet-cast of characters also star in Phil's newest project, WHAT'S  IN THE BIBLE.

WHAT'S IN THE BIBLE (WITB), is truly some of Vischer's best work, to date!  In this series of 13 DVD's, Phil and his wacky Jellyfish characters explore each book of the Bible.  You will be amazed at how much knowledge you and your child can glean from just watching these DVD's!

Oh, and did I mention that the kids will LOVE watching these shows?!  How many five year olds can say "Pentateuch"?  After the second DVD, yours will, and as a bonus he/she will actually know what it is!

What about a completely fun, catchy song that will help them memorize all the Kings of Judah?  Have you heard of the Fabulous Bentley Brothers?  Oh you will...  

If you grew up in the 70's, School House Rock, and their lyrically smart songs were just a part of your Saturday morning cartoon routine.  If you're anything like me, even in college I was still signing (in my head) the Preamble of the US Constitution to the tune I learned many years prior through School House Rock.  It was painless, fun, and somehow...it stuck.  This same modality of teaching/ learning is just as effective when applied to God's Word. 

As a home schooling parent, part of my curriculum program is a Bible component.  I have yet to find a curriculum which is both entertaining and truly educational!  My choices have been Bible cartoons with great story but no educational or historical value; or they are so...what's the word I'm looking for... BORING!  Yes, very,very boring, dry, beat-it-into-your-head Bible history, boring.  Sort of painful for most kids to get through.  Sort of painful for most adults to get through, too!

This year we will begin using Phil Vischer's WITB, as our elementary curriculum.  I will add some art projects, and Bible memory verses, but I guarantee it will be a course where my second grader learns about God's Word, His story and His history!  Not painful in the least, very educational, and I'll even look forward to popping in the DVD and sitting alongside my son, as we have class!  Not bad!!

This isn't to say that WITB can't be thoroughly enjoyed without using the DVD's as a school course. Entertainment with a message;  that's really how they were designed to be enjoyed.  I'm just tweaking things...as usual. You know me!!

There are three DVD's already released in this 13 DVD series, and the fourth will release in October 2010. To order or watch a trailer go to the links provided:

#1  In The Beginning

#2  Let My People Go

#3  Wanderin' in the Desert

#4  (Pre-Order) Battle for the Promised Land

Here's Phil talking about the series and, well,... What's in the Bible...

The Joy of Being Able to Trust

We've been enjoying a wonderful series at church these last few weeks called, "Trusting the Lord--During Difficult Times".  There are so many nuances involved in our human ability to fully trust anyone, not just God.  But trusting God is so vitally important to our emotional, physical AND spiritual health.  Why are we, His most loved creations, so hesitant to trust our loving Father?  Why do we think we need to fix it ourselves?

Our pastor gave us such a beautiful metaphor of trust today. Instead of writing in my usual circles, I'd like to try and paraphrase what he spoke about.

He told us that a little bird flew into his house the other day.  The bird, instinctively, flew up the wall to the one pane of clear glass that looked like a way out.  Sadly, the little creature kept flying head first into that pane of glass.  He was sure that he knew the way out...he just had to work a little harder at it.

Pastor Tom, feeling empathy for the bird, got his broom out of the closet, and gently began to edge the bird over to the open window, which was a few feet away. A window that the bird could not see from his vantage point.  The bird, probably extremely frightened at the sight of a big broom coming at him, flew even harder toward the pane of glass in an attempt to get away.  Again, Tom tried to nudge the bird to the open window.

In time, and after (I would assume) a lot of pain, that bird allowed Tom to move him down the wall, and ultimately to his freedom outside!

Now, it is obvious that this was a beautiful metaphor of trust.  We, like that bird, can only see what we assume to be the right choice, direction, or decision. It's right in front of us, and we're pretty sure if we just try HARDER, we'll be ok. Our field of vision is humanly limited.  Like a loving Father, God will get a "broom" to gently nudge us to the path that is truly in our best interest.  Sometimes that broom is scary! Sometimes we fight against that broom and wallop our little head a little harder against that pane of glass which we are so sure will lead somewhere we desire to be.

The true joy comes when we trust our Father and know He is using that broom not to destroy us, but to guide us to the right path. We let Him guide us...we can't see the open window from our perspective, but trust that it's there.  Then, with one last nudge, we feel the freedom, joy and victory of that open window!!  We've made it!  Looking back we see our loving Father smiling at the fact we are flying, and no longer hitting our precious heads against a pane of glass.

So, the questions are these...Are you currently hitting your head against a pane of glass? Are you trying to figure out where that open window is, on your own?  Look behind you, listen, and trust that your Father knows the way out-- the perfect way for YOU.

Waiting on the Lord--It's About the Process Not the Outcome

I read the most inspirational email today!  It was about God's timing in fulfilling the desires of our hearts.

We have all heard the saying that goes, "Sometimes God says, NO".  But I wonder if we confuse "NO" with "Yes...  but in MY time".

We live in a time where we get online and order any product from anywhere in the country, and see it delivered to our doorstep 24-72 hours later. Have we become people who not only dislike waiting, but no longer know HOW to wait?

I admit it, I hate waiting!! Instant gratification is something I deserve, right? --Ha!

At Disneyland my family has the Fast-Pass system worked out!  We want to get on those rides quickly and get through the park in a very synchronized manner.  How fun, huh?!  It is truly a painful experience to wait in a line for 45 minutes!!

Waiting = Pain.  Hmmm.

Expedited shipping at Amazon? Absolutely! If it's a book I've decided I want to read-- I want to read it, NOW. Certainly waiting an extra week is ridiculous!!

Do we need to look further than the array of fast-food restaurants, microwave dinners or instant breakfast drinks / bars to see that we are just too busy to wait for a real meal to finish cooking in the oven? How did our moms do it--every night?!  Not even having the option of "making" pre-breaded chicken nuggets, even!

When we think about ourselves and our culture, it makes total sense that we may have lost the ability and even the DESIRE to wait on the Lord.  But His word is full of examples about waiting on the Lord. The blessings that come from doing just that!

"Now may the God who gives comfort and strength in waiting make you of the same mind with one another in harmony with Christ Jesus…" Romans 15:5


"And so, as the result of patient waiting, our forefather obtained what God had promised." Hebrews 6:15


"And not only so, but let us have joy in our troubles: in the knowledge that trouble gives us the power of waiting. And waiting gives experience; and experience, hope: and hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us." Romans 5:4-5

Sometimes I can look back at a blessing that came from God, and realize there were several mini-blessings found in the PROCESS of waiting on Him.  Things that I never realized, even while they were happening, that were part of the process of waiting on the Lord-- because I was so intent on looking for the OUTCOME.

Are you like me, and more focused on the outcome rather than the process?  Step away from the situation you've been praying about, for just a moment.  Has the Lord taken you on a journey through this prayer process?  Has your life been touched (even in a small way) by someone or something who (that) may have crossed your path in a fragmented answer to that main prayer?  Look at it... from all angles.  Perhaps then you too will see that waiting on the Lord is more about the process and less about the outcome.

Enjoy the ride.  Our God truly supplies the best E- ticket adventures, ever!

Embracing Autism??

I'm having one of those days.  Anyone who is the mommy (or daddy) of a child with autism will tell you, we have "those" days.  Days when we feel our personal hopes and dreams for our children, who have special needs, are shadowed by an unfair reality.  Days when you just run out of steam.  When you just don't want to hear another Spongebob episode spoken verbatim, even though you know his communication skills are still forthcoming, and that is his BEST way of communicating.  When you want your child to be able to answer "what", "where", "when" questions without the need of a prompt.  Days when you just wish you understood more.  Had more to give.  Didn't have to throw angry looks at others who don't get it!  I've thrown a lot of angry looks in the last few years.  Those mumbles under my breath are hardly ever kind.  But who or what am I angry at?  At Autism!!  At the condition which makes my child just a little different.  


But... then I sit down and cry, not defeated, but worn out.  I let loose the anger, frustration, and selfish desires of my own heart.  I hear my Lord whisper in my ear that He's right here!  That just because the world doesn't understand my son, it makes him no less valuable and able to accomplish great things for His Kingdom!!  Then I look at my sweet boy, who is playing one of his computer games, and I know...  I just know Jesus will make all things perfect in His time.  Not my ways, but His.  All I have to do is just love my boy--- and that part is EASY!!


In her book,  TEN THINGS EVERY CHILD WHO HAS AUTISM WISHES YOU KNEW, Ellen Notbohm writes about the world from the perspective of the autistic.


Here is her condensed list: *(I'M PRINTING THIS OUT AND STICKING IT UP ON MY REFRIGERATOR!)

Ten Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew

I am a child first

My autism is one aspect of my total character. I am a person with thoughts, feelings, and many talents - like you. Don't allow stereotypical thinking to limit your expectations of what I may be capable of.

My sensory perceptions are disordered

The ordinary sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and touches of everyday life that you may not even notice can be downright painful for me. I am not withdrawn or belligerent; I am just trying to defend myself.

Distinguish between won't and can't

It isn't that I don't listen, it's that I can't understand you. When you call to me from across the room, I hear: "*&^#@, Billy. #$%$&*" Come speak directly to me in plain words: "Please put your book in your desk, Billy. It's time to go to lunch." Now I know what you want me to do and what happens next.

I am a concrete thinker. I interpret language literally.

Don't tell me something is a "piece of cake" when there is no dessert in sight and what you really mean is, "This will be easy for you to do." Idioms, puns, nuances and sarcasm are lost on me.

Be patient with my limited vocabulary

It's hard for me to tell you what I need when I don't know the words to describe my feelings. Be alert for body language, withdrawal, agitation, or other signs that something is wrong.

Because language is so difficult for me, I am very visually oriented

Show, rather than tell me how to do something. Patient repetition helps me learn. A visual schedule relieves me of the stress of having to remember what comes next--and helps me meet your expectations.

Focus and build on what I can do rather than what I can't do

I'm constantly made to feel that I'm not good enough. Trying anything new when I am almost sure to be met with criticism becomes something to be avoided. Look for my strengths and you'll find them.

Help me with social interactions

It may look like I don't want to play with the other kids on the playground, but I don't know how to start a conversation or enter a play situation. Encourage other children to invite me to join them at kickball or hoops.

Identify what triggers my meltdowns

Meltdowns and blow-ups are even more horrid for me than they are for you. They occur because one or more of my senses has gone into overload. Figure out why my meltdowns occur and they can be prevented.

Love me unconditionally

Banish thoughts like, "If he would just..." Remember that I did not choose to have autism, and that it is happening to me, not you. Without your support, my chances of successful, self-reliant adulthood are slim. With your support and guidance, the possibilities are broader than you might think. I promise you-I'm worth it.

© 2005, 2010 Ellen Notbohm www.ellennotbohm.com

VeggieTales' Sweetpea Beauty - DVD Giveaway

Here's your chance to win a FREE copy of VeggieTales' newest episode, "Sweetpea Beauty: A Girl After God's Own Heart".  **Please read my previous post for a complete review of this lovely story, which is a lesson about True Beauty based on God's Word!**

To win your free copy of "Sweetpea Beauty" comment on this blog, and tell me why you love VeggieTales!  The winner will be chosen at random on July 26, 2010...and the FREE DVD will then be mailed out.

For more information on VeggieTales, upcoming events, and great products go to Big Idea!

Free Printables to enjoy and share:

Mirror, Mirror on the Wall... Who Has the Truest Heart of All ??

The story goes like this . . .

Once upon a time, there lived a royal blueberry, a fair rhubarb maiden and a deceptive mirror! Sweetpea Beauty knows that what’s on the inside is what matters most, but insecure Queen Blueberry can not see past her own reflection! So, when a decree is handed down that only the most beautiful can rule the land, the Queen gets nervous and things turn ugly! Banished to the dark forest, Sweetpea’s future seems bleak until a charming prince, a band of merry minstrels and seven snow peas come to the rescue! Will Sweetpea and her friends be able to warn the Queen in time to save her from the clutches of the tricky mirror — or will the crumbling kingdom and the Queen’s own heart be lost forever? Find out in this fairy “Veggie” tale about the real meaning of true beauty.

My friends at VeggieTales are about to release a DVD with two beautiful stories, SweetPea Beauty and Snooderella. Both of these lovely stories were written while specifically focusing on the hearts of little girls. The relevant, yet very sweet stories answer two extremely important questions: What is the true meaning of beauty? AND, By whose standards do we measure our beauty?

In the main story, SweetPea Beauty, there are many exciting moments! Our heroine, Sweet Pea, played by Petunia Rhubarb, teaches the lesson: Beauty in your heart is much more important than beauty on the outside. Queen Blueberry finds this out, firsthand!!

Besides having some really lovely songs throughout the show,SweetPea Beauty borrows several fun elements found within some of the most loved princess stories: A charming Prince, seven "dwarfed" snow peas, a magic mirror, a queen of questionable character, apples...and a turkey dinner. OK, so a turkey dinner is a new twist, but tryptophan does play an important role!

The Bible verse referenced is, Proverbs 31:30 "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." (NIV).  Most of us grown up girls know all about the Proverbs 31 woman.  While she can be pretty intimidating, we still desire to be her.  I really liked how the story's writer, Mark Steele, utilized this Biblical truth! Quite simply, it's what God's definition of beauty is that's important. We girls, of all ages, often lose that perspective! Therefore, this story holds within it a very valuable lesson! God sees what's in our hearts; that's the TRUE definition of beauty.

If you are a fan of the VeggieTales classic, A Snoodle's Tale, you will love the second feature on this DVD,  Snooderella.  VeggieTales co-creator, Mike Nawrocki, wrote this sweet story, using the same rhythmic lyrical (Suessical) style found in its predecessor.  It's a little it like Cinderella meets The Princess Diaries in Snoodleville.  The theme will touch your heart, whether you are a young girl or, like me, just a wee-bit older version of that young girl!  This story is one that all girls will easily relate to! The message clearly reinforces that our loving Creator cherishes each of us, loves everything about us (even the awkward parts) and reminds us that we are truly wonderfully made!

One of the neatest things that you will find on this DVD, is during the closing credits. Christian music super-star, Nicole Nordeman, wrote and performed "Beautiful For Me" for this VeggieTale. It's just wonderful! Her lyrics tie all the ends together, making for a very complete package to showcase how beautiful we girls are to our loving Lord and how much He loves us, just the way we are!

As you know, I'm the mother of two boys. There is absolutely NOT a SHRED of pink anywhere in my house! Most movies that I get to watch generally have super heroes, light sabers, or swords in them. My TV is usually tuned to ESPN, The History Channel, Discovery Channel, Nickelodeon or Disney. (OK...admittedly, I do sneak in my BRAVO shows when everyone else is in bed AND I like some sports!) But, quite literally, I live in a man's world! Be that as it may, I am girl through and through! I totally understand what our dear little girls go through in this superficial society we live; and yes, we adult girls go through similar self image problems, ourselves.

The thing that I love most about VeggieTales is that I almost always walk away from screening a show with a personal reinforcement of a Biblical truth! I'm grateful to the writers of these shows for keeping the story and the message GOD lays on their heart at the forefront of their art. It would be a lot easier to write for the secular audience and make an overall generalization of what it means to be beautiful. Instead the writers reference God's Word first, then create a story around that truth. And the Truth... well, it just works!

Isn't it just like our loving Creator to fully understand His softer, gentler creation would need to hear the words, "You are beautiful" and "I love you"? I find it spectacular to know we girls have that love letter, personally addressed to each of us, found within His Word.

SweetPea Beauty will be released to all major retailers and Christian retailers on July 31. But, if you go to the Big Idea web site, you can PRE-order your own copy of SWEET PEA BEAUTY today, which comes with a FREE bonus CD, "Songs for Girls", all for just $14.99.